5 Reasons I Stopped Coloring My Hair | Part 2.

Can you believe that it's been 10 years since I last highlighted my hair!

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August 22, 2013. Two days before my sister's wedding. Also the last time I had highlights put in my hair. It was time to say goodbye to permanent hair color forever. 

Why I said Goodbye to Hair Dyes

1. DAMAGE. The more I colored and highlighted my hair, the drier, more brittle it became. Especially the ends. Argan Oil and conditioners helped. But dry, damaged hair is my pet-peeve.

2. IT'S INEVITABLE. My mother has white hair. My maternal Grandmother and paternal Grandfather had white hair. I found my first gray hair in my early 20s, so I'm destined for it. (I'm 52 years old now.)

3. IT'S NATURAL. Be honest. When you see an older lady with dark hair, you know it's not natural. Does it make her look a few years younger? Maybe. But what's wrong with looking her age?

4. MY HAIR IS GETTING WHITER & WHITER. As my hair/roots became whiter and lighter, it showed more. For a while, I could go 5-6 weeks between colors, but when it got to where I had to have touch-ups every 3 weeks... well, this leads me to #5.

5. TIME & MONEY. This was the big one. My hair was costing me more time and money than I wanted to spend. As the roots grew lighter, the brown base needed to be re-touched every 3 weeks. Not that I had it done every 3 weeks, but it needed it. I'd go in every 4 weeks, so there was 1 week of... "ugh these roots" and "I hope no one notices my roots" or "today may be a hat day."


These 5 reasons are true today. I still have darker natural color closer to the nape of my neck, but you can see that the front and top of my hair is becoming whiter.

Embracing My Waves

About a year ago I decided to embrace my natural waves. After fighting them for so many years, I wanted to decrease the heat styling and learn about the Curly Girl Method. I don’t follow it strictly, but I love the concept of it… washing less often, using a co-wash and a mousse to control frizz. These are my favorite products. Specifically the Aussie co-wash and mousse or anything from the “Miracle Curls” line. Purple shampoo is a must-have for white hair!

It has taken some time to get to this stage, and I will occasionally add a little bit of curl to the top layers. There’s a lot of trial and error with different methods and products and it needs to be as simple as possible.

How about you? Have you embraced your grays?

xoxo, Cathy